A Dating Story: So my friend that "tore my skirt" off last year by accident has been dating this girl recently. I looked him up again and he invited me out with this girl he has been dating, himself and 2 other couples and another guy. The guy was the only single one besides myself there. As the night proceeded I came to the conclusion he was probably gay. He gave no notice to the waitress that was flirting mercily with him and he was pretty shy, but the only thing he lit up about was his friend "bill" which he talked about over and over. So I kind of laughed when my friend Brent called to tell me he wanted my number. I decided what the heck and we met at Herkimer's on Thursday for lunch. (Ironically the scene of the crime for Brent and my date).

So during lunch he asked me a few questions, it appeared he was trying really hard. However, he avoids eye contact all the time, he waved and looked at me when I came in and pulled out my chair, but the second I sat down the eyes darted. It seemed like when I walked into his "intimacy zone" he was so uncomfortable. Mind you that "intimacy zone" was sitting across the table from him. Okay but here is the point, once again the only time he locked eyes and was comfortable was when he was talking about "Bill", his eyes lit up and he was truly excited about it! Also he told me he grew up in a Missouri Senate Church, not the most excepting of a gay lifestyle. I need a girl or guy with good gaydar, but I'm pretty sure I'm not the girl to show up on a Oprah show 10years from now stunned my husband just told me he was gay. We'll see if he asks me out again as to what I will tell him, but I feel I need to say something ... hmm. Any ideas?